Sorry for late reply - we've been ill.
Not a show off thread, I guarantee you, nor a stealth boast.
Thank you for the helpful comments suebfg, debtcamel, doingthestats, littleredsquirrel, specialsubject and many others.
littleredsquirrel - the £30k in redundancy didn't feel like a gain as I was made redundant while pregnant and the package included mat pay I was legally entitled to. I got another job a year or so after baby was born but it pays much less so I still think of the £30k as sort of subsidising my much lower current income.
I also only get a rubbish pension in my new job and a lot less benefits all round. DH does have a good pension package (still final salary for now) and decent life cover too. We took out an extra policy for me when we renewed the mortgage.
snakeweave, I will register on MoneySavingsExpert and post there too - good point.
justwondering, I've not heard of Motley Fool - will look it up, thanks.
Paying off a chunk of our mortgage seems to be the consensus. I'll look into that. I think we can overpay a percentage each year with no penalty or reduce the term. Advantages / disadvantages to each option?
Nancyshrew, I also know many people who are ignorant about money i.e. after years of working in the same job as me they moan about high rents and not being able to afford a deposit on a mortgage but seem to overlook the money they fritter away on extravagant and designer items and nightly trips to bars and restaurants :) Aside from my house, the most expensive thing I've ever bought is a 2nd hand car for £4k and my wedding dress is the most expensive clothing item I've ever bought and I got that in a half price sale for £500. People I know, some of whom have earned less than my previously-slightly-above average salary think nothing of spending £200+ on a handbag or dress for a wedding and yet wonder why they have no savings.
I got raised by parents that don't do debt but they also never had much money so had little knowledge of how to manage it - beyond making sure bills were paid - to pass on. Savings and investments - beyond the little terraced house they own - are something they know nothing about. They were truly horrified by my £10k student loan debt that I left uni with, despite that being the norm, at a v low interest rate and paid off within five years without me really noticing as repayments were deducted at source.
zippity - FYI we made regular, modest monthly donations to a number of charities. My £100k in savings (held jointly with DH and accrued over a decade in full time employment) wouldn't even cover the salary of a Chief Executive of some of the larger ones though. And to a City trader it'd be a nice quarterly bonus. Kinda puts it in perspective.