I have NCd for this as I hate this part of my life and try to not think about it as much as I can because if I did I would stress really bad.
When I was with my ex I worked full time but was on very low pay. I had to support us both. I didnt qualify for WTC and he got some benefits but spent them on dope. He was abusive both emotionally and physically. I cannot entirely blame that ofcourse but it played a part.
During that time I got into debt. In total its about £15k. Its from a credit card (my ex stole £600 cash from that. I reported to police but didnt press charges.) a store card, a personal loan, the outstanding balance on a HP car and a phone contract. Theres also unpaid telephone bills that my ex ran up phoning sex lines while I was at work.
I swear I am not making this up.
Anyway, 4 years ago I got pregnant (contraception fail) and the stress of the abusive relationship, money problems, pregnancy and an awful work environment forced me to leave work at 20weeks. I tried to enter into payment plans but as I was then on benefits I was advised that I couldnt have a payment plan as debts cannot be taken from them.
The car was repossessed. I had debt letters for two years and then they tailed off before I moved house.
My question is, what the hell do I do now? I am looking for work again so when I get a job do I try to get a payment plan?
Will it all drop off my file after 6 years as I have read online? Could I have CCJs that I dont know about? Should I file for bankruptcy?
Also, I was thinking of retraining as an accountant (I realise how ironic that sounds but I have learned so much from all this, Im good at budgeting money now) but would this bad credit affect my ability to get a job in say two or three years?
Thankyou if you have got to here. Any advice is much appreciated.