Hi - I'm confused and would appreciate advice. I will try and give as much info as I can.
My FIL (84) has terminal lung cancer and is in hospital, prognosis is a few weeks at best. MIL is 86, in poor health herself, although mobile and mentally capable. My H is an only child, we have 2 DCs at primary school. We live around 40 minutes away.
They own their home outright (worth c£250-275k) and have cash assets/deposits of c£80-100k. MIL is still at home at present, we have to consider her needs when she is alone in due course, its a 60's 3 bed semi but arguably she may not cope well alone - she has said as much, but doesnt want to go in a home, which we understand. We live in an old cottage where steep stairs and lack of facilities to be honest would make it impossible for her to come here, no spare bedroom either (and with a DS and DD I cant bunk them in together).
We have been struggling financially (H has own business, and it has been tough). They want to give us c£30k from one of their deposits now, which to be honest would be a godsend. They 'dont need it' and it was always intended for us anyway, no other family. Everything passes to surviving IL (obviously likely to be MIL) then to my H on the latters death, we have seen the wills.
I am confused over whether we have any tax implications here, given I really cannot see MIL lasting 7 years, which I know is the IHT limit? Also - to be honest - how would the tax man know we have recieved this money?
Thanks in advance