Please don't flame me - this is a genuine worry - so much I'm losing sleep about it - and I do know in lots of ways I am very fortunate...
(I've been member of mumsnet for years - under another user name as well as this ...and always feel I have got good advice...just haven't been on much recently - I tend to get addicted)
My partner and I own a modest house - paid the mortgage off years ago. My partner had a business which he sold a few years ago - so for the last few years we have had money in the bank...for years I have been dithering about getting a slightly 'better' house so my 2 dds don't have to share a room and they have a bigger garden to play in (and I have a nasty neighbour too who makes my life a misery)
A close relative died suddenly a couple of months ago - it hit me hard and I realised that life is just too short...I went seriously house hunting and found one -which isn't absolutely perfect but almost is - it needs a lot of work doing on it and money spending on it ...we put in a lowish offer and to our surprise we got it...we will own it outright...
But this will leave us with about £10-15k in the bank. We don't intend to sell our current house but to do it up a bit (couple of grand) and rent it (income should bring in the same amount as the interest on the money - and in the current market with neighbour problem it would be hard to shift)...
I'm a SAHM and know I will find it hard to get a job in my field now - I probably won't be able to get a well paid job...
My DP is not very well paid - including the interest/rent our annual income is/will be about £25k (although we don't have to pay rent/mortgage - so it does go further) but we don't manage to save much each year...I'm really worried if something big came up we wouldn't have the money - I know we could borrow against the houses etc but we would struggle to pay it back...and it would be a really stupid position to get into ....also no money to pay university tution fees etc for our children...
Just worried I have really really messed up...some of me worries that my grief has made me react too fast ....
We will have approx 60% of one years annual income in savings - which probably isn't going to increase much... would you be worried?