I know we have had a lot of "benefits" threads but thought we could do with remembering how fantastically lucky we are in the UK.
Whatever your views about benefits etc, the fact is any one of us could be in the position of needing to rely on it.
My son is autistic and nights are difficult, in addition he is struggling at school. Because we have a Welfare State I have been able to say "okay I need to take a year out and support my son" (and to catch up on sleep).
My son gets DLA, I get Carers Allowance, Income Support etc.
When my son was born I could not have predicted the difficulties he would face and how hard these would make my life. I never envisaged a future on benefits but I am bloody glad they are there for me at a time when I need them.
I can even do some ad-hoc work for my employer and know that in the future when things settle I can return to work because I will have kept up to date.
So I think it's fantastic that we have this. No I am not as well off financially out of work (as is only right) but I have enough to manage life while helping my son cope with the challenges his autism is bringing him at the moment.