I know, probably not.
DH is in the position where he could have a full time higher level job in the next six months (promotion), which would mean we would finally have a steady income of around £12,000 a year, which would be a huge relief, and the next jump would be to about £18,000 or £20,000 which would be actually amazing.
I get DLA (plus various other income related things, but DLA is not income related) and am pretty sure I would also get PIP when that comes in, unless I recover, in which case I would be looking for a job asap. Recovery is not expected for the next four years or so at least though.
I would love to be able to think that my DLA income, which is around the same as a small NMW part time job (the kind of work I would probably be doing to ease myself back once I can, and tbh if I was still having to tread very carefully I would still be on DLA, just at a lower rate) would count for our dream (which admittedly is very far away atm, but once both kids are at school, DH starts working his way up at work, we both finish our degrees, etc it would be very possible) of getting our own house.
We've seen houses that could be bought fully for around £60,000 that would be brilliant for us, or there are cheaper ones that wouldn't be amazing, but at least we wouldn't be at a landlord's mercy as to whether they decide to just sell up from underneath us or whatever. There are also various shared ownership schemes in the area as well.