hi im rubbish with money and all things financial.
a bit of background, i took vol redundancy and finished work last week. apart from feeling a bit down about it and life in general now that im not working (and through choice at that so only myself to blame!) i now have my lump sum sat in my bank account and i have no idea what to do next.
i have an overdraft from my student days and about £1700 on a credit card which i am going to pay off in the first instance as i think thats sensible. but then what? i am going to need to use my redundancy to live off until such a time that i start work again - prob 3 years or so if im lucky so i am going to need to 'salary' myself to cover my share of bills etc. i reckon (hope) £700 a month should be enough.
so what do i do with my money? i cant lock it into an ISA as i will need to draw on it every month. am thinking of putting it into premuim bonds initially while i sort myself out. also do i need to tell the bank that i am no longer working - will they take my debit card off me? as i would still like to be able to buy the occasional thing for the kids or myslef, although i do realise that this will be few and far between in the future. i have phoned the tax credit people as we currently get £35 a month child tax credit between our 2 DCs which was due to stop in april anyway due to all the changes. i am not sure what effect the redundancy will have on that or if we would have to pay anything back - and they didnt really know either.
am finding it all a struggle not working to be honest and i am thinking i have made a huge mistake. and it was supposed to make our family life easier 
would be grateful for any advice