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Benefits if new partner won't contribute?

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confusedandunsure · 30/11/2011 13:45

Partner (over a year together) moved in recently and is contributing more financially than I am (I have three children by previous partner). He said this was fine as we both contributed mine was just significantly less as I work parttime. However now he's decided his contribution is too much and I need to work more, which I'm not happy with as I've only just made the move to part time work as I've worked full time for a long time. He knew this for a long time before he moved in. He's unhappy contributing this much as he has debt due to previous relationship, and also keeps comparing it to how when he was single he would have more money. I have significantly less money as I no longer claim any benefits apart from Child Benefit, and I'm now running into debt because of the situation.

Is there situation where a couple can claim tax credits as if they were single if other children are involved? I'm pretty sure there isn't but I wanted to check as it boils down constant arguments over money.

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StaceymAloneForver · 30/11/2011 13:57

nope if you live together you are both responsible as part of a 'couple'

kelloo1 · 30/11/2011 14:48

erm no...what staceym said. If you live together you are a couple and must claim as a couple. If he knew the situation before he moved in, what's his beef? He can't just change his mind.

CogitoErgoSometimes · 30/11/2011 14:50

He sounds like an absolute charmer Hmm The problem you have now is the problem a lot of couples experience which is how to stop thinking so much about 'my money' as an individual in a selfish way. and think about 'the family's money' and joint responsibilities. Not getting it right breaks up a lot of relationships.

smackapacca · 30/11/2011 14:50

It looks like he's the problem - not the money. he's not really in it with you is he?

OldLadyKnowsSantaClaus · 30/11/2011 14:53

Are you receiving the correct maintenance for your dc? I can see that he might be unhappy if financially supporting another man's children. But then he knew that before he moved in.

Why did you go part-time?

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