As a family, we were due to go abroad to an International swimming competition. Myself, dd, ds1 were competing and dh and ds2 were supporters. We were told ds2 may be able to "sneak in" as a competitor even though he was under the entry age of 10 (he will be 10 in March).
Anyway, we verbally agreed that we would like to go and we made arrangemnets for ds3 and ds4 to stay with rellies in Leicestershire as we were told it was likely the flights weould be from East Midlands, just down the road.
About 6 weeks prior to the competition we were sent a very generalised letter stating that the flights would be from Stansted. It included details of the accommodation, confirmed the price for competitors and confirmed the flight times. It did not include names of who had been entered for which events, so we were left wondering whether ds2 had been sneaked in after all. We had requested details of what vegetarian food would be available, we were told there was likely to be something, which didn't convince us much as this was Germany we were going to.
Anyway, just over 3 weeks prior to the event, we felt the trip to babysitters and then to Stansted (a trip of almost 200 miles) would be too much before getting the flight at 8pm in the evening. Together with my knee injury rendering me unfit anyway, even though I was prepared to go and give it a shot, we felt we had no choice but to pull out.
We have since received a bill for cancellation of £300. Since we never signed anything and never received written confirmation of who who was competing, we feel a bit hard done by. Can't the organisation claim the loss off their insurance?? Can't afford to pay out this amount of money just before xmas but notwithstanding that, are they able to sue us for this money?
Sorry it's long and rambling, but I would appreciate some advice before I respond to their demand for payment.