Hi
Its sometimes very confusing to work all of this out. My suggestion would be to think 'what if'. Ie 'what if I had a serious illness (like cancer) that would mean lots of time off work?', 'What if my DH does?' 'What about if it was something less serious (like a broken leg) that meant time off work?' Look the impact on your finances and childcare arrangements.
You need to think about what work would pay in each of these cases and what you could comfortably live on? For example, could you live on just your income for a few months if your DH wasn't earning? Would either of your parents help you financially if you were seriously ill? That sort of thing. Once you have a clearer idea of the 'problem' you can find a way of insuring against it.
To answer your questions:
now do i look at term or mortgage cover
- at the very least cover your mortgage, possibly then also look at some over and above this, depending on budget.
and is critical illness worth it - i am thinking yes but am also thinking some private medical insurance would be canny too ?
- Critical illness insurance (CIC) pays a lump sum if you are diagnosed with a serious illness. 80% of claims are cancer, heart attack or MS. Its up to you to do what you want with the money - for example pay off the mortgage, allow the other one to take unpaid leave to care for you, adapt your home, one last trip to Disney World etc. CIC tends to come with free life cover as life cover is much cheaper to provide than CIC - think about how many people die young compare to getting a serious disease and surviving!
- Private Medical Insurance (PMI) helps pay towards the cost of private medical help. There are lots of different levels of this. Whether you think it is worth it depends on your opinion of the NHS!
- Also consider Income Protection Policy (IPI) - which pays you a £ amount each month you are off work through sickness or injury, no matter what type (so would cover broken leg example above). They are usually set up to 'kick in' once your company sick pay finishes. Its relatively expensive as most policies pay out at some point, but can be good knowing you will always have enough coming in to cover your bills.
can you end a policy earlier if you pay it off earlier?
Yes. You simply set it up for the longest time you think it will take to pay off your mortgage then once your mortgage is paid off, cancel it.
What do they ask about your past ?
It differs for different companies. In a nutshell - its anything that will make a claim more likely. They don't tend to like ongoing medical issues. So its probably best to push for a diagnosis for your DH ASAP.
Finally can you organise it through a compare the market type site or would it be wise to contact your mortgage company first?
Yes, you can use interweb, but seeing as you don't know what you want yet I wouldn't advise it. I wouldn't contact mortgage company either, as IME they don't tend to be the most competitive. The easier way to do it would be to go into a bank and say you want to talk to someone about life insurance.
Someone there should be ask you about your circumstances and make some recommendations. I would ask at a couple of places and get some ideas of what you want. You can then purchase through them or via the internet. I would suggest using an adviser as they handle the whole thing and you don't have to do any paperwork bar a couple of signatures, but then I'm lazy!
HTH