Will try to keep this brief. I co-own a flat in London which I bought a few years ago with a friend. When I was heavily pg, DH and I moved out of London and settled close to my family up north(ish). A few months ago my parents lent us money for a deposit and we bought a house in DH's name on an interest-only mortgage because that's all we can afford (obviously will switch when things improve).
Meanwhile co-owning friend continued to live in London flat for a while but then got made redundant and the only job she could find was up north so she has also moved out and is renting with her DP.
London flat has been on the market forever and has had two buyers who have made offers and progressed a fair way before pulling out. Unfortunately it needs some minor-ish building work doing to it (underpinning a small extension at the back) and in the present climate mortgagees are wary of lending on it so making a sale difficult.
We are currently in the process of seeing if the insurance will pay for the repairs; if not then I think we're going to have to bite the bullet and pay for them ourselves because it just isn't selling without the work being done. I can't afford to just sell for cash and walk away because I put in £20k for the deposit and another £10k for the freehold and even if I don't get the mortgage we've paid off back (which we probably won't) then I can't afford to lose that money, largely because the house we're in now literally has no kitchen and we need to extend to build one (we'd just accepted an offer on the London flat when we bought this house).
Renting the London flat out does not appear to be an option currently due to the need for repairs.
So we're in a position where we're paying two mortgages on DH's not particularly high salary and my piddly small one. Santander/Abbey are the mortgagee on the London flat and they get all pissy if we mention we've moved out
so we are currently pretending to still live there so can't really mention the two mortgage thing - I've just told them that we are really struggling on depleted wages since having DD and saving up to have the work done. For the past three months they've let us pay a reduced amount but now apparently there is absolutely nothing they can do and we have to revert to paying the full amount. This will absolutely cripple us this month - I think we're just going to keep on paying the reduced amount, for this month at least, and just hope we don't get into too much trouble :(
They did say we could spread the remaining amount we had to pay off over the max possible term, which was supposed to be sorted out earlier this month, but instead they sent us a baffling letter saying we would need authorisation from the Official Receiver. Friend is going to phone them to see what that is about.
I thought they had some sort of obligation to be a bit more helpful or accept a lesser amount as long as we are paying something but the woman on the phone told me there would be all sorts of dire consequences if we failed to pay the full amount and said there was nothing else she could do. Have I got completely the wrong end of the stick here or can they just shaft us?