So, my DH and I separated in October, and tbh he's been very good about giving me money toasted the house and DC. He's now decided that he is not going back to his job, from his current sick leave, as he is so unhappy there. Consequently, he tells me today that he's not sure how much money he can give to me. Once the house is sold, this would be fine, and I would have expected less from him. However, until then, I need to pay bills and credit repayments, and can't manage without his input. I'm not sure how to handle this. Should I go for an IVA? Contact the people we owe money to and try to gain some breathing space? Anyone been in a similar situation? What would you do? Thanks