I find the whole pensions subject very confusing!
As DH works full time, and I am self employed, he has one pension through his work which they also contribute to, and one personal pension in his name which we also pay into every month. I am mildly bothered by the fact that I have no pension in my name, despite the fact that we can't afford to contribute to a third policy. DH says that it's better to have the pension in his name as we then get higher rate tax relief, which makes sense, and that if we ever split up, I'd be entitled to half of his pension anyway.
This all seems to make perfect financial sense, but I wouldn't like to feel I'd missed something, and was being naive not to have my own pension - even though the only way of achieving this would be for us to stop paying into the personal policy in DH's name, and open up a new one in my name (with less tax relief).
Anyone know more about this than me, and can re-assure or enlighten me?!