Just needed to let it out

[whatgoeson]

I've had three miscarriages and the due date for the second baby I miscarried at 11 weeks is tomorrow and I just feel lost.

I coped a bit better with the due date of the first miscarriage as I was already pregnant, but am not now and just feel so empty.

I've sat over the last three months, since miscarriage 3 and watched 5 friends give birth and tried to stay positive. I know life goes on, but it's just not fair.

I know I'll be ok, I know so many people have been through this, is there anything you did to make it less painful?

Janie

xx

Im sorry I dont have any advice but youre right, its not fair and its ok to feel like that. its ok to feel a bit down with the due date coming up, maybe let yourself grieve at the minute and then try and pick yourself up in I dont know, a week or so?

thinking of you

I don't know how to deal with it either. My due date for my 1st mc at 16 weeks is on 28/5 and I find I'm dwelling on it more as that date gets closer. that could be because of 2 further mc . It is a 'first' to get through like the others I do plan to have a quiet moment to pay him the respect he's due but still can't bear the thought of a visit to the garden of remembrance. Take care of yourself you are still allowed to feel grief there are no rules to say when you haveto be over it.

I really feel for you, it's so hard. My first pregnancy ended in a mc but I now have two DSs and am hoping you soon have a successful outcome. I planted some bulbs in the garden that flower around now, which is the time that our first baby would have been born. I love seeing them flower each year and although I have my two gorgeous boys keeping me very busy I will never forget that baby and the excitement of being pregnant the first time, the physical reminders helped me, although it's best if you're staying in your house for a while obviously....
Good luck, and let yourself grieve, take care.