sotough, I've got a chromosomal abnormality, a Robertsonian translocation. it means 2 of my chromosomes are joined together. It was discovered after I had 3 miscarriages - they did karyotyping on me and my husband and also tissue karyotyping from the last baby (and I had a missed mc - baby died at 6-7 weeks, but I didn't have the ERPC till 10w 2d, so I don't know if the missed mc thing is such a problem, although you know the NHS, every doctor has a conflicting opinion) and found that the baby had trisomy 14 which is consistent with my genetic thing.
Time for my 2p - if you've had 4 mcs and they've all been documented by the NHS then you should be getting testing for a whole lot of stuff - blood clotting disorders, thyroid, hormone problems, and you should be getting blood karyotyping of you and your husband. Lesley Regan's book is good, although she's very down on explanations which haven't yet been through randomised controlled trials, like there's some stuff about immune responses and killer cells and stuff that she took an age to acknowledge and used to say were rubbish. that realy hacks me off. I mean, I get it, randomised trials are important for the NHS because they can't afford to waste money giving ineffective treatments "just in case." But I can, and I only have one body and one life, and I'd rather hand over the price of a new car to the likes of Taranissi if he thinks he can help where the NHS has failed, even if he fails, because then at least I know I did everything. Anyway (takes deep breath) it turns out I have something wrong with me that the NHS recognises so I can put that rant away.
OK, this is how it went for me: when I'd had the third miscarriage I went in for an ERPC and I got referred to the recurrent miscarriage clinic at the same hospital. I wanted to go to Regan's clinic so they referred me to there. I think that if you have your mc at home (and so have no contact with the hospital) you need to ask your GP to refer you to the local recurrent miscarriage clinic. (Once you're there you can ask to be referred to St Mary's, or just stick with them). Maybe I'm telling you stuff you already know but if you're not currently hooked up with a RMC I'd urge you to go do it, 4 mcs might be bad luck but it might not, and there are a lot of things they can do.
If there's anything I can help you with, any info you want just give me a shout - I'd be very happy to fill you in on any aspect of this stuff that I've been through.