when will i stop hurting ?

[iwantanother1]

i MC 2 weeks ago i would of been around 6-8 weeks but didnt know i was pg me and dp didnt relise we both wanted another baby, we have 2 dds.
my older sis is pg and i was fine but the week after my mc i found out my little sis is now pg we would be due the same time .
everyone around me seems to be pg now and on everyone on tv is too.
my older sis found out what she is having today and that has made me relise what i have lost befor eit was just a mc now it was i have lost my baby and im having such a hard day now as i cant stop thinking about my baby i feel so stupid because i didnt know i was pg so how can i miss something i didnt have.
please help find a way of moving on im hurting so much .

so sorry iwantanother - feel so similar today - had MC mid feb and also really want another -feel really guilty as have 2dss and everyone round me telling me should be thankful for what I have.
I have been for reflexology last few weeks and find doing something for myself is really helping - hard days happen but you will get there - thinking about you

thanks
i feel so low today and i cant stop bloody crying i feel like a right fool

i am sorry to hear that you are going through this, you need to give yourself time. i mmc at the end of Jan and it's still very hard and no matter what i do my mind is always on the 'what if' and this should be happening now. i have good and bad days and like you its like everyone around you are either pg or you are hearing that someone else is pg and yes the fact that everyone on tv is pg too....where does it end!!i also have a friend at work who is pg and there would have only been 7 wks difference between us....it seems like its always in your face

take care of yourself and keep reading mumsnet coz its full of lovely people who know how you are feeling (it's helped me)xx