Help! My DH has just announced that he doesn't want another child. I miscarried my second pregnancy at 12 weeks (5 weeks ago). I'm gutted. He said the pregnancy showed him he was 'ambivalent' about having another child. I feel so angry, I can't speak to him and it's awful. I don't know how we ended up here. I had my period last week and I thought we'd start trying again fairly soon - but he doesn't want to... He said he might be persuaded but I don't think you can persuade someone into having a child - it's too big a responsibility and both people should be happy to do it.... ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh it's not fair. In the first few weeks we were a team and now I feel like we're on different sides and I can't even look at him without feeling like my heart's being ripped out....