Why can't I just move on with my life?

[Unbuffy]

I had an erpc more than three weeks ago, but it's all i can think about. I'm so tired and emotional and i just can't cope with everyday life at all. I feel so alone and don't feel i've got any one to talk to. i know i'm setting myself up for a fall writing this because i have a knack of killing threads.

basically this is a self-pitying moan but it's got to come out somehow. i think it must be hormones, that ever-present excuse, but somebody please tell me that i'm not alone and that it doesn't all just 'go away'.

Thank you.

Hi Unbuffy (its lemon from conception threads)

I had my mc on mothers day last year and I still have wobbles now ,but not as bad.My mc was really traumatic and I think thats what still upsets me.

For weeks afterwards I just felt so empty and angry. My Dh just listened when I cried and ranted,he was really upset as well not just because he wanted the baby so much but because I ended up in resus (was in shock through blood loss).

Just take each day at a time and on the bad days (due date was tough)don't beat yourself up if you fall apart,cry and cry it does help.

The grief gets more manageable but I dont think it will ever truely go away.

Words cant really help but time does.

I know what you mean about it changing from day to day - one month on, I thought I was completely "together" at work, then someone started asking over coffee whether I wanted any more children, when I was going to have one etc. And AF arriving shows me there's going to be no "miracle" immediate new pregnancy either..