Miscarriage after ivf

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i have just had my first cycle of IVF and i was due to have my 7 wk scan when i stated to bleed the night b4. I had my scan and i got the devistating news that there was no heart beat. I am so upset and at the moment i dont see any light at the end of the tunnel

Firstly, really sorry for your loss.

It is a terrible hard thing to go through, but please, just remember, there is light at the end of the tunnel.... no matter how far away you think it is at the moment.

How is your DP/DH? Have the hospital offered you any counciling?

I want to say how sorry I am for your loss. You and your DP/H must be heartbroken.

There is light, but right now you're really suffering, hope in time you start to see it and think about more treatment.

You may want to remember your baby and pregnancy with a little token of how much it means to you both: nice vase, trinket, piece of jewellery, plant or bush for your garden.

I lost a twin some weeks ago and looking for the right item is giving me some comfort.

Thanx for the replys ladies

We have had the discussion about treatment and I would start again 2moro if I could but know that is not possible I suppose time is a great healer just need to think of the future

I had to go back to the hospital today so waiting on results they have suggested councelling so maybe I will take it up.

I have waited so long to get pregnant and I feel as if i have been robbed I done everything by the book and just like that its taken away from me

Me and my husband have another 2 cycles so i just need to think positive.

I am so sorry for your loss. It is a terrible thing to happen and that you had to undergo fertility treatment doesn?t make it any easier.

I do hope that there is light at the end of the tunnel but right now I can?t see any either. My husband and I we too had to have fertility treatment and it all went terribly wrong at 17 weeks and 2 days just before Christmas. We are still heartbroken. Talking about it helps but in fear that our friends and family (who are still very supportive) will get tired of our grief, we have decided to sign up for counselling sessions starting a week today. Even though I never had counselling before I do think that this is the best way forward.

As AlwaysDoingSomething suggested before, doing something to remember your baby by is a really beautiful idea. I found a really nice piece of jewellery which I will start to wear on Wednesday, the day before our baby?s cremation.

Best wishes.