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unnecessary wobble...

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bb99 · 30/01/2010 12:02

Oh help - unnecessary wobble today.

Had the specialist follow up appt last week (lmc nearly 3 months ago now...) and he is looking into seeing if heparin is the way to go for us if we want to have another go. We are so special we even saw the PROPER consultant, not just one of is minions - oh to be ordinary! Threw up all sorts of questions like - do we risk what we already have on the off chance that the next pg may go ok if I can even get pg again or do we just call it a day ?

SIL (who I have a long and interesting relationship with) is over later and staying over with her new baby and my other nephew and BIL. She is being lovely atm but has been a pain in the past. Also am flapping about the house - I have not been super motivated for the last few months and also have worked a lot more than usual, so been avoiding housework...now they're due later and dh has put his back out so can't help Also I will have to be on my best behaviour and not slag off say controversial things about my PILS as they have been less than what could be described as unsupportive this time around, so I am not very fond of them atm.

I know I am just being dizzy and daft about this, please someone come and give me a slap and tell me to stop dramatising what will probably be a lovely day and evening...just broke my heart at Xmas to see dh snugging up my new nephew and now have got to have them in our house for a whole day and night...panicking at the moment, could just have a HUGE row with dh and put a stop to all this [evil emoticom] but know I am just being daft.

Breathe woman, breathe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

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ravenophelia · 30/01/2010 12:18

i dont have any experience with this but i feel for you.i hope everything goes well.good luck.

piprabbit · 30/01/2010 12:26

You are a serene swan gliding through life unruffled by in-laws of any description. The visit will be a wild success and you will wonder what all the fuss is about when you sit back tomorrow with a large glass of wine.

TBH, I'm sure you will have a few tough moments - but you will get through them somehow. When I saw mums with their babies while I was struggling to concieve I used to have to try and control an urge to run away.

As to trying heparin, I had to have daily injections of fragmin (low-dose heparin) throughout my first (full-term) pregnancy. It was fine, and I have a lovely 6yo DD today. Second time round the consultant decided to go with low-dose aspirin instead which at least meant no sharps boxes around for little hands to discover - and now I have a 20mo DS too. Funny how life turns out.

Good luck - glad you are seeing the 'main man'.

bb99 · 30/01/2010 12:57

Thank you both - I am off to get my tutu on now and do a very good swan dance....fah la larrr...

Glad for your story ending piprabbit

Smile and wave, smile and wave...

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