Hi all, sorry to read about all your situations. My heart goes out to all of you, you are all in my thoughts and prayers, hope things work out for everyone. This is my first time on this site, I have been reading alot of the posts and thought I would share my story. I am 30 years old going onto 31 next month. I have had 5 pregnancies which I have lost. My ordeal started in April 2003 when I first fell pregnant, which resulted in bleeding and no real explanation, Dr's think it was an ectopic which resovled itself. 2nd preg was July 2003, this preg resulted in an ectopic pregnancy in the right tube, the tube had ruptered but I was in no pain. It is only when they operated they found out that I was bleeding internally,one more day and I would have died. As a result of this they had to remove my right tube. 3rd preg Sept 2004, ectopic in the left tube, the pregnancy was removed and I was able to keep the tube with scaring. 4th preg May 2008 in the womb all was going well, but it turned out to be mmc, had a ERPC on June 18th 2008 at 6 weeks of pregnancy. 5th pregnancy Dec 2008 which also resulted in a miscarriage at 6 weeks, on its own this time no surgery needed. I have finally been refered to the Recurrent Miscarriage unit at St Mary's hospital and now am just waiting for an appointment. All I can say to everyone is I know how it feels and how difficult it is to go through the loss. I have been able to be so strong because I have a loving husband and great friends. I think about my loss everyday. I am a teacher and work with 4-5 year olds. People wonder how I can work with children after everything I have been through. I do this because I love my job and knowing I am making a difference in someone elses childs life gives my a great satisfaction.