i'm a regular poster on this site but have changed my name. i've had two miscarriages in the last few months. i have a healthy little boy so the miscarriages were unexpected. last week we found out i'm pregnant again. i felt totally "flat" about it - not excited at all. now i'm beginning to start worrying all over again (something i have been trying so hard not to do ) about whether it will work out this time, or not. I am constantly looking for pregnancy "symptoms" to reassure myself the baby is still alive and constantly thinking about the whole situation. needless to say i don't have any strong symptoms, which is probably hardly surprising at less than five weeks pregnant [hmmm] i know fretting and fussing and analysing everything is the road to madness but i can't seem to stop it.
does anyone have any advice/tips for getting through these next few weeks while we wait to find out if this pregnancy is viable or not?
Forgetting about it/putting it out of my mind and getting on with life as normal just doesn't seem to be realistic.