Mc

[Shaneeza]

Hi I just had my 1st mc and I feel devasted, even though I have an adorable 2yr old. I feel very empty, my hubby told me not to worry it was just a cell but I know even though my baby was 6wks old n didn't have a heartbeat to me he/she was more than an it. I am feeling so alone with my grief I know that a lot of women have experienced a mc. I pray that our next time is a success.. I feel as though people just want me to move on without grieving, which makes it worse, I feel very empty, I guess I should thank God that he blessed me with a daughter. Good luck!

Oh sweetheart. You're not alone, and of course you should grieve if you need to. If your miscarriage was very recent your hormones will still be settling which could make you feel pretty crappy for a bit. Just take your time and go gently on yourself.

hi shaneeza I'm very sorry for your loss, of course your baby was more than a cell, he or she was all your dreams and plans for a loved second child. Take time to grieve, a miscarriage is a loss, whatever others may say, anyone who has been through it will tell you that. I'm sure you will be blessed with more children in time, but for now, take each day at a time and look after yourself (((hugs)))

You do need time to grieve, don't be too hard on yourself and let it all out when you need to. It's so hard and it will get better, but you do need to grieve first.