Hi my name is venus. i am in my early 20s and had a miscarriege at 4 weeks after IVF, and i am now pregnant for the second time as a result of IVF. I had my first scan at 5 weeks and was told i had either miscarried or had a chemical pregnancy as nothing could be seen from the scan. i went back a week later at 6 weeks, and was told that a sac could be seen, but it was too early to see a baby as they claimed the sac measured at 5 week 4 days pregnancy. my dates were not off as i had IVF. another week later, at 7 weeks, i had a scan and was told by the doctor that all they could see was the sac and the yolk sac, but nothing else. which to me was good as it was a development from the last scan. they told me that this was not a good sign, and that this may be a failing pregnancy. i am very down and depressed as i thought that because there has been progress within the womb it was a good sign. i then went back for another scan today at 7weeks, 5 days. they cant even see the yolk sac that the saw a few days ago! i have booked myself in for a D&C on wednesday, but my husband says that i should wait one more week, until i am 9 weeks to get final confrimation and make a decision from there. but i think the wait will kill me. i haven't managed to go to work since i discovered that it may be a blighted ovum, and i can't imagine what i could have done wrong. i also feel ashamed as when i found i was pregnant, i wanted to shout it from the roof top, and my job being so physical, i had to tell my work mates of the pregnancy very early on. i feel shameful that i did. i wish no one knew. i just want to hide somewhere. i have had no pain or bleeding, which is making it even harder for myself and my husband to accept it. i feel bad that i have influenced my husband to spending most of our savings on this venture for the second time in 6 months only to get a useless result. what makes this even worse is that fact that i donated some eggs after my treatment as i had produced 21 eggs, now all i keep thinking is that someone else could be carrying a child that is biologicaly mine. i guess i am envious. i have been left with ovaries soo swollen that they can bee seen and felt on my belly. everytime i go in for a scan this is always the focus of the scan, not the pregnancy. i fear i have ruined my ovaries, and any chances of having children in future. i have fluid in my womb and to be honest i am not sure what this means, but i know it's not good. my head is all over the place and i seriously feel like i am loosing it. has anyone ever had this and it turned out well? pls help