Hi Liney, I had a spontaneous miscarriage on Thursday morning, I too am still reeling from the shock of the physical process. I'm so glad that NHS Direct talked me into going to A&E when they did to get pain relief as I would have needed an ambulance had I waited any longer .
Naturally, I'm immensely disappointed that it hasn't been a successful pregancy and am very, very fortunate to have my DS for comfort. But this disappointment is nothing compared to the trauma of my (brief) time in hospital.
I'm still experiencing pains today, although these are more like the period pains I was told to expect at the outset and are managable.
My heart goes out to you at this difficult time, clearly I don't know what you went through and don't know if it helps to know someone else has been through a difficult time, I hope you don't mind that it helps me - although I don't wish it on anyone of course.
I'm not explaining myself very well, my heads a bit all over the place.
WRT trying again, I've been told to go to my doctor's in 2 weeks time to have a blood test to make sure my HCG levels have dropped and to wait for one period, but this is only for timing purposes, nothing else.
I'm not sure if my DH wants to try again, mostly coz he doesn't want me to go through this again - I guess we'll be doing more talking about it soon.
Maz, if you have pain, ask for relief, that is the most important thing, don't suffer or feel you have to - its not helpful in any way. However, I hope that your worst fears are not confirmed and that your timing is wrong and that you will have some good news, I hope this with all my heart.