has there been a major break down in all phones? and computers?

[bananasandwich]

No???? Thought not just my friends have ditched me then.

Why is it when you need friends the most they seem to vanish? I NEED a cuddle.

I know they probably dont know what to say...but neither do I. Before all this had arranged with my friend to go out tonight to see SATC, she text this morning seeing if I still wanted to go (errrr NO!!) I said I didnt really feel up to it but if she was free then it would be lovely to see her if she wanted to pop round? Nothing for 4 hours...So I text again saying to ignore my last message and that I was off to bed. As soon as that had delivered she text back. Perhaps I am being paranoid but I suspect she really didnt want to come over.

Going to watch BB - it will either make me forget a bit or it will make me angry them arguing over silly things.

Sorry moan over.

Yes I didn't hear from a couple of my friends who I know knew about my m/c's. The only reason I could think of was not knowing what to say. But FFS it really doesn't matter what you say does it just as long as they try. I am so sorry for what you've been through, sometimes i feel that noone except someone else who's been through it can ever really understand how bereft you feel by the loss.

Oh dear! It's a bugger when that happens. Been there, yelled a lot, made people come over and wept over them.

I'm sending virtual cuddles - deffo better than BB.

I suspect your friend feels really awkward and needs to know exactly what to do and say. I would text her and say 'I need cake, come round, we'll watch a DVD'.

Shame on your friends though. Some people don't like to talk about their miscarriages, others do. But you should at least give people the opportunity to make that choice themselves and not just bloody vanish.

People don't get bereavement. Sorry