TTC after 2 Recurrent Miscarriages MMC

[sophierose1616]

Hi all, first time mother here trying for my first baby at 29.

2 miscarriages in 4 months.❤️‍🩹

I fell pregnant in 2 cycles from coming off birth control. I had a missed miscarriage in January at 6 weeks (ish) found at a scan. No heartbeat. Had D&C surgery. Got pregnant in 1 cycle after surgery in April and the same thing happened at 6 weeks (ish). Missed miscarriage. Had a heartbeat on the scan but 1 week later no heartbeat. Had second D&C surgery.

Looking for advice on trying for the 3rd time.
i have blood tests ordered from my GP in 4 days for hba1c, full blood count, antiphospholipid antibody, u&e, thyroid, vitamin D, b12 & serum folate, ferritin, coagulation screen. See if anything comes back from this.

i have also been looking at karyotype testing to check for DNA chromosome issues for myself & husband for balanced translocation. Not sure if I should try again for the 3rd time before looking into this as I know it’s rare. I think I’m just looking too much into it maybe?

Looking for support / stories / TTC advice.

Feelings of fear, worry, failure, disappointment, disbelief, diminished hope, sadness, grief, anger. It is still raw as my D&C was only 5 days ago.)

I Want to try again ASAP (after first period). Myself and my husbands are going to take Pregnacare Before Conception His & Hers multivitamin tablets (I was only taking folic acid and vitamin D from the day I had my first positive pregnancy test) so I want to start taking these before conception so my body is more prepared and with more vitamins - I’ll try anything! Myself and my husband are both going to take coq10 tablets too for sperm and egg quality.
I’ve read success stories taking low dose aspirin so going to take these too. Although if I haven’t bled both times will these help me anyway? Same with progesterone but I can’t get these without being prescribed. I could ask my GP when I meet with her to discuss the blood test results next week.

i would appreciate anybody who is going through/ has gone through similar. Just so nervous about our future and what our story will be. There is nothing I want more in the world than our baby and having 2 losses so recent is breaking my heart. 💔

❤️‍🩹

Hi op. I had 2 Mmc and 1 chemical over a period of 18 months while trying for a second baby. Soul destroying.
I was getting a bit old by that point really so gave up.
fast forward 2 years and fell pregnant first cycle of a last attempt at the age of 40.
right now I’m sat trying to get the little one year old sod to sleep after he kept me up all night.
you never know what’s around the corner and while you’re in it it feels like the worst and loneliest place in the world.
I never found out the reasons for my miscarriages. I felt that my hormones were very unbalanced and I did a lot of research into supplements, whether they helped or not I don’t know but I did feel a lot more balanced after a few months of taking them.
I also found pod casts helpful, the world worst girl gang and mind your hormones.
I also have two friends who had recurring miscarriages and talking to them really helped me.
best of luck, most likely things will work out fine, it just might take a while.