I am just out the other side of a scare from pregnancy loss. I miscarried at home between 7-8 weeks and retained products in the process. This led to extensive bleeding and clots which became life threatening. I lost consciousness multiple times at A&E and was given an emergency D&C to save my life. I am recovering now at home, iron tablets, antibiotics, pain relief and will continue to suffer the effects of significant blood loss for a number of weeks to come. I am in the process of being tested for APS (antiphospholipid syndrome) as this is a strong possibility. This is my second miscarriage and I have two healthy children - a boy and a girl. The question is do I stop now at 2 or try again for the third? The decision to go for a third was a difficult one already and I wonder if this is the universe’s way of telling me it is not meant to be - that I and my existing children will be better off with stopping at 2. All the usual arguments, plus now the added concern for the potential affect on my health - although of course, this too will pass. I am in limbo. Please give me your thoughts. For context I do work full time and have a career I enjoy.