I have been meaning to write this for many many years and have just got round to it. I don’t want to give anyone false hope but I know when I was in the situation I’m writing about that i trawled mumsnet for any kind of hope. I had my first child at 40 with no problems. I got pregnant very quickly and hax a straightforward pregnancy. A year later we tried for a second child. Fast forward 3 years and 4 miscarriages later and I had almost given up hope. I had had two of the miscarriages tested and was told that basically my eggs were old and I would need an egg donor. We looked at IVF but were told I had a 12% chance of success. Well my second child is now 10 and snuggling with me on the sofa. I had him totally naturally at 44. As I said I don’t want to give anyone false hope but it does happen sometimes. If you’re almost at the point of giving up as I was then sometimes it does work out. ❤️