2 miscarriages in a row

[Louieloo]

I’ve had two miscarriages in a row now, In the space of 4 months. I’m now starting to worry there is something wrong with me! It’s now given me the worst depression and anxiety I have ever had in my life! Is there any hope? I’m scared I will never get to be a mum! I’ve had one missed miscarriage and one spontaneous.

has any one else had the same and had a health pregnancy? I’m so scared!

I don’t know how to get through this! I think it’s the worst thing I’ve ever had to go through! I just feel so alone and that nobody understands what I’m going through. Does anyone have any advice?

Hello love

I am very sorry for your losses and I know how shit you feel.

Just letting you know that I had 4 before a consultant decided to try me on a hormone replacement for subclinical hypothyroidism (too low a level to detect but enough to cause problems with PGs).

The next one stuck and I have a very healthy happy boy.

I know in some trust areas they wait for three until they take steps.
Staying in Mumsnet and hanging around helped me but there were some threads at the time that I had to hide. There are several PG after MMC threads and these were useful.

It's normal to feel you fucked up but You Didn't, of course, nature can be very cruel and blunt, and it seems those little ones weren't going to be healthy if they did come out.

Please be kind to yourself, rest, try to drink lots of alcohol, and eat brie, and I hope you have to give all that up sometime soon.

Wishing you all the fortune, and thinking of you x

Hello, so sorry for your loss and thinking of you!
No happy news story from me but just to say i'm in the same boat, so you're not alone. Within about 6 months have had a natural miscarriage and a mmc. Now very anxious to start possibly trying for a third time, and wondering if there's something wrong with me or my partner. You're not alone, i feel the same way. To know the nhs wont do anything until miscarriage number 3 isn't reassuring either.

Hoping we hear some good news stories from others and good news for ourselves soon. Wishing you all the best!!

I had 2 missed miscarriages and then went on to have a healthy pregnancy a year after my second missed miscarriage. After 12 years (of not trying) I then decided to try for another and I also had a healthy pregnancy.

I am so sorry for your losses.

I had about 6 early miscarriages before my first and one missed miscarriage before my second. I did take aspirin with my successful pregnancies but never had it confirmed I had any issues

I had a mc before dc1 and one before dc2. A friend at the time had 2 in a row then went on to have 3 children. I am sure she told me that if she were to have another mc after the first 2 then the GP was going to run a few tests.

I was lucky to meet a very straight- talking nurse after the first mc who told me that it's very common and to 'just go home and try again.' It's so hard, I remember particularly after the first one how sad I felt so I am sending you hugs and lots of good luck for next time.

Sorry for your losses. I am currently 23 weeks with a healthy girl after 3 losses before 12 weeks. I fell pregnant so they took me off the wait list for the recurrent miscarriage clinic.
All I changed between the third miscarriage and this pregnancy is added coq10 supplements for egg health and a low inflammatory diet/med diet.
I was offered an early scan and progesterone at 6 weeks but I also had this with previous losses due to bleeding but it can’t harm to ask for this from your EPU next time you fall pregnant. It may be worth speaking to your GP about the losses though most places only investigate after 3 losses unless there are other factors but worst they can say is no.

There are some lovely people on here on various TTC after loss threads. You’re not alone.

I wish you all the best for the future, baby dust x

I'm sorry for your losses. Last year I had a miscarriages in August and December both at 10 weeks. I then fell pregnant again straight after the second miscarriage without another period. Baby is now 3 weeks old!

I had two miscarriages within the space of 4 months too and was under investigation with the miscarriage clinic when I fell pregnant with my eldest. I've since had a 2nd child since then who I concieved very quickly at 37.

It's very devastating what you are going through and I remembering worrying there was something wrong with me too but unfortunately it is just sometimes one of those things.

Thinking of you OP and hoping you will one day be like me and that it is all just a bad memory. I had my first child no issue, then 5 miscarriages. Two with very severe blood loss. I then took an aspirin a day and I had my second child. It was an awful time.