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Samthenanny · 18/08/2025 11:05

So today should’ve been my due date and I feel really down and a bit crappy today, hasn’t helped that AF showed up this morning also.
it was my third loss and I’ve not been pregnant since, my periods have been crazy most of this year.
think it’s worse today as a friend who didn’t want no2 has gone into hospital to be induced so it’s feels like a extra slap in the face I guess.
just wanted ti air how I feel a bit as in sure there’s people on here who feel the same way, I did mention it to my partner and he gave me a hug and told me not to think about it which as we know it’s not possible to do

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Gingerseal · 18/08/2025 21:28

I’m so sorry to hear your story. I’m also feeling sad having lost a baby and can identify with your feelings around your friend. It’s such a shit club to be in and I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through it

Baby26 · 19/08/2025 09:19

Ah, so sorry you are going through this. It's shit. It was my due date a couple of weeks ago too, for my first MC. I've since had a chemical pregnancy, and right now, I should be 10 weeks pregnant, but a few days ago found there was no heartbeat. I'm going to be starting medical management tomorrow. Have you had the recurrent MC referral? I've just had my appointment come through for 4 months time. It's made me feel a little more positive for the future.

Samthenanny · 21/08/2025 17:35

Thank you for the replies means a lot and sorry for the above typos, you’re both right it is just shit.

@Gingerseal sorry for your loss. It’s so hard with friends isn’t it as you’re obviously happy for them but at the same time feel sad for yourself, it’s a hard feeling to describe.

@Baby26 sorry for your recent news, hope you’re feeling ok.
yeah the balls started rolling, had my scan 2 weeks ago and apparently everything there looks normal and healthy, just waiting for partners sperm count to come back and then they’ll see us to discuss where we go from here

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