So I had an early miscarriage a few months ago. My husband and I have been trying since the beginning of the year (both 30) and I’ve had tests done - all came back fine thank god. He has his semen analysis booked in October.
His family do not know about the miscarriage and do not know we’ve been trying for a baby, it’s a very personal subject, obviously, and just not something I want to share with them. I don’t need to go into detail, but I have a real hatred towards his brother for many reasons (mainly because he is an a hole). Anyway, his family keep asking us when we are having a baby and it just breaks my heart every time I can’t even find any voice to reply.
I want to be honest at times, as it’ll be easier and hopefully they won’t ask again, but then other times I feel I’m glad they don’t know…it’s a real hard one! I’ve even used ChatGPT to help me with my responses and I’ve used a few! But they’re very insistent and it’s at the point where I’m worried I’ll snap - I’m a very patient person and hate confrontation. What’s the best way to go about this? Do I bite the bullet and say we are having struggles, but then because his brother is getting married I worry he will then think we are trying to take the shine away from him…
To be honest, I would love to just crawl in a hole and not speak to any of them until I eventually get pregnant so I don’t have to answer these questions again! What would you answer back? Xxx