Recurrent Miscarriage

[Mum384729]

I’m looking for some stories of hope from others. My fertility journey started in 2016 after the birth of my first son at 18 weeks. After years of infertility and grief I finally delivered my son in 2018. After two further miscarriages I had my daughter in 2021. Since then I’ve had 6 back to back miscarriages ranging from 5 - 12 weeks, two of which were surgical.

I have a long history of surgery, endo, and adenmyosis. And this year I turn 40. And I’m down to one tube!

I don’t feel ready to give up, but I am struggling to find any other journeys that I can relate to, to hopefully help me see the light. Maybe I should accept defeat, I just can’t shake the feeling we were meant to have one more.

I fully relate to this, same time frames for children and age also. Multiple miscarriages and 1 extremely complex recently. I fully relate to not shaking the feeling of meant to have 3 or wanted 3 etc. but for me I think I am done now. You may have more or a drive than me for 1 more. My circumstances have not quite worked out the way I envisaged but in many many ways they are so much better because of this. I think for me it is about my expectation of having more children. My reality hasn’t played out quite as expected but as I say in sooooo many ways this is my perfect.

good luck for conceiving or making peace. But you are definitely not alone. I think a lot of people feel like this. Xx

Hey! I am so sorry for the losses you have experienced.

I am similar in feeling that I can’t shake off the want for one more. I have 3 children with big age gaps. I turned 40 earlier in the year. I am trying for one last time. I’ve had 3 miscarriages in 12 months, one being surgical.

I bought the book “it starts with the egg” and it’s a minefield but extremely interesting. I’ve made some changes it suggested for women that have had multiple miscarriages who are older so we will see.

Im praying for you that you get one last chance! 🙏