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Miscarriage after Healthy Pregnancy

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Scoaf · 02/07/2025 13:22

Im not really sure if im asking anything or if I just want to get this off my chest.
Little back story, Had 2 early miscarriages, back to back when we first started TTC, got referred for some tests, consultant advised I started taking low dose asprin, got pregnant the next month. I Had read alot about progesterone online and managed to get the consultant to prescribe it and managed to get an early scan at 7 weeks, then had another at 9, then stressed the whole pregnancy!!! Luckily our beautiful rainbow baby was born healthy and happy and is now 3 years old.
Dh and I have not been using any contraception since September time but not really trying trying, just seeing what happens.
Fast forward to June and i have low iron levels so had some routine bloods and I asked my GP to check my hormone levels and it came back that my HCG was elevated so GP suspected I was PG, did a test that night and it was negative, so waited until the next morning and got the faintest positive, did a digital which said Pregnant 1-2 so I suspected I was having another MC. Went back to the GP and she checked my HCG levels and they had dropped significantly and I started bleeding the next day 😢
Is it sheer bad luck? Is it because I didn't have the progesterone like I did with my healthy pregnancy? Is it my age? Was i just a complete bitch in a previous life??
I dont know! I'm confused, frustrated and just really sad about the whole situation. 🤷‍♀️
I would love that pregnancy you see other people have, like in films, when everything is all perfect.
My GP has referred my to a reacurrent MC Clinic do im just waiting for that.
Anyone else been here?

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Tinytotdriver · 02/07/2025 14:09

I had a MMC, took years TTC but finally had my rainbow, just recently had another MMC and waiting for my period to start so we can TTC again. It’s horrible wondering if your rainbow is just a fluke and if it will ever happen again. No advice as I’ve never had progesterone, but apparently the vast majority of miscarriages are bad luck… it’s so hard to see some people have babies so easily though. I feel your pain 💔

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