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Please tell me if this has happened to you after a miscarriage...

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bcsnowpea · 22/05/2008 00:06

Okay, so I'm just a huge worrier about this whole thing, but I need to know if this will ever end.

I had the horrible part of the miscarriage two sundays ago, and bleeding slowed to pretty much a stop since then. However, in the past few days, I've not had regular bleeding but just this small watery-bloody gushes once a day. We're talking maybe less than a thimbleful, but it's just bizarre, and irregular. Has anyone else experienced this, can tell me if this is normal, or when I might finally get my body back?

...or just give me a quick hug...I'm too stressed right now, I need to stop worrying about this...

thank you

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teary · 02/06/2008 17:03

hi olivo
thankyou cant help feeling utterly deflated i know i should be more hopeful but having the worst two years of my life divorce,emergency major back op,mum dying, business flooded, m/c you just wander when the light is gonna shine again thought it was now but fearing not!

BeckyBendyLegs · 02/06/2008 17:16

Oh teary poor you. Sounds like you really need something good to happen in your life right now so I'm keeping everything crossed for you

teary · 02/06/2008 17:23

thankyou beckybendylegs
I really do as feel like im running on empty and just waiting for the next horrible event propably why im so resigned to the loss of this little pip!x

milfAKAmonkeymonkeymoomoo · 02/06/2008 17:27

Hugs to you teary, I had a year like that last year: BIL got a heart infection, had two MCs and my Dad died within the space of three months and then I was bullied at work.

I am now 21 weeks pregnant though so things do look up

teary · 02/06/2008 17:31

hi anyone, just wandered if anyone could remember having a stitch like pain at the bottom of there rib cage almost slightly pulling sensation i have it on the left side its been niggling all day along with various other little stich pains all over but nothing major and wandering if this is all part of starting to m/c back ache worse today (am a bad back sufferer at best of times tho!)(hmm)

teary · 02/06/2008 17:37

hi Milfakamonkeymonkeymoomoo

Life is so cruel sometimes! heard a good piece of advice the other day 'dont speak of your dreams or wishes or god will crap on them' i have always been a mild believer but starting to think this phrase may be true!
sorry to hear you too have suffered! take care of yourself and little bump hope all goes well for you now!x

BeckyBendyLegs · 02/06/2008 18:12

That is so true! The day after we first put our house on the market two years ago the house was flooded in a flash thunder storm! Now that really is God crapping on your dreams. I like to think that all these horrible things though help us grow strong and cope with all the other things that life throws at us. Reading about people's experiences on MN has really helped me get some perspective on life.

Milfakamonkeymonkeymoomoo thanks for giving us hope

Teary I didn't have any pain at all with my MC until it was well under way but that might not be the norm I don't know.

teary · 02/06/2008 19:23

I didnt either with my mmc just had pink discharge on and off and at 10 week scan said baby just stopped growing so only difference now is it is brown? just cant stop thinking about it.

charliesmum22 · 02/06/2008 20:26

Oh teary, I so hope that everything turns out to be okay for you. Not sure what the stitch like pain is, but hope it's something like baby growing pains...

Try to stay as calm as you can, I know it's difficult. Thinking of you...

teary · 02/06/2008 21:57

hi charliesmum22
im trying to stay calm just feel like im going crazy suddenly having all these different symptoms I.e stitch, feeling really tired and lathargic, headaches but dont know if its in my head cos im looking for problems, if you know what i mean, oh well i guess i will soon know what is going on. speak soon x

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