unfortunately I miscarried A few months back, I was around 12 weeks…
My partners a lot older than me and has a grown up daughter that is around my age and during my miscarriage she’s gave our miscarriage no attention and told him that’s she’s pregnant and asked him to come to her baby scan saying it’s the only one she will have during her pregnancy so if he did come to that one he would get to see his grandchild…. When he went he could go in the scan or even talk to his daughter as all her friends where there and they went in the scan room with her …. She never invited him to another scan after even though she had a few as that was her first ….. I tried addressing this with my partner and he flips at me … I get upset about the baby I’m ruining him looking forward to his grandchild … I’ve tried to get over this I brought things for his grandchild they wasn’t good enough and they are just left at the back of my cupboard as when I try to gift them they just get left …
i don’t know if I’m wrong finding this hard or if I’m being selfish but I just feel like it would be nice to have been able to talk to my partner…