Ectopic pregnancy "remain" funeral

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Hi all,
I'm new to this type of thing but just looking for a little help.

I suffered a ruptured eptopic pregnancy on 11.2.25 and the "remains" are to be cremated/buried at a little communal service in a few days.

I'm just looking for help in regards to what to expect at the service. I'm still really emotional over the whole experience and started counselling the other week.

The baby was planned for quite some time and quite wanted and it took a long time to conceive, to then be elated to a week later the bleeding and rupture started. I was rushed to theatre and went into shock and required an emergency blood transfusion. Physically I'm on the mend mostly but mentally I'm still a wreck. I have 2 daughters 8 and 4, but my partner and i recently split just due to the stress and emotion of it all and how much it took its toll on us both. I just would like any advice on what to expect. Thank you.

So sorry for your loss and everything you have gone through. I had an ectopic last year, I opted for the hospital to cremate and they scattered the ashes in a local remembrance garden but there was no funeral service so to speak. Hopefully someone comes along and can answer better. Take care of yourself, it is a really heavy time and a lot to deal with at once ❤️