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Stayls89 · 11/04/2025 10:16

Hi all,

So I found out I’m pregnant a few days ago and I’m so excited but extremely nervous. I’ve been pregnant six times luckily two of those resulting in healthy beautiful babies who I absolutely adore and I realise I’m so blessed and lucky to have them. Two of the pregnancies were at ectopics which made me heartbroken and one was a miscarriage. Now being in the situation again I’m excited but also very scared and nervous, i get attached very quickly once I know I’m pregnant and I plan ahead which I shouldn’t so is this wait of finding out if it is in the right place if the babies got heartbeat I just feel a bit all over the place and trying to be normal and get on with things, but I also feel in this situation time is going really slowly as usually it would go really quickly. I don’t really know how to feel or how to act I understand that I’m luckier than some I’ve already got two beautiful children but I can’t help it I get so attached. Has anyone been in the same situation I know in the past I’ve had healthy pregnancies but I am also trying to not get too excited at the same time. The ectopic scared me so much I would’ve loved to have not gone for the early checks and just waited till the 6-7 week mark to have a scan unfortunately I just couldn’t risk it.

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EmiJomobean · 12/04/2025 09:16

Congratulations! Just wanted to say breathe, your body has done this before. Take it each day at a time.

so sorry for your losses. Wishing you a safe pregnancy ❤️

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