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Any advice?

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Charleigh03 · 12/02/2025 09:09

I'm not sure what I'm hoping for but I feel so alone. Over the last 3 years I've had around 5 miscarriages, I see those 2 little lines and automatically get so excited but then the dread hits will this end before it's even started?
So when I saw those 2 little lines all I felt was sadness it's happening again.

I went for a scan assuming I had hit 7 weeks which would make it my longest pregnancy since my son in 2020. And they couldn't ' find my pregnancy' that's a new one.
I'm currently sat waiting to be referred for another scan and possibly blood tests.
My last period was the 23rd December, my first positive test on the 28th. I took a clear blue test ( digital) on the 31st which said pregnant 1-2 weeks. But that couldn't possibly add up with my last period?
I'm so confused and just at a complete loss, What's wrong with me?

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Mulledjuice · 12/02/2025 09:11

I'm so sorry that must be really hard.

Are you in the UK? If so you're eligible for support after your 2nd and some basic investigation ie blood tests. Then after a 3rd you're eligible for referral to recurrent miscarriage investigation

Mulledjuice · 12/02/2025 09:12

Have you read " It starts with the Egg?" It should also say "it starts with the sperm too" because that influences the development of the embryo etc.

Itonlytakesone · 12/02/2025 09:16

@Charleigh03
I'm so sorry iv had that happen to me last year its devastating, it sounds like a blighted ovum. It's not your fault 🥹so upsetting though. I felt the limbo to my situation being resolved over the following few weeks tough. If you want to ask anything I'll help.

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