Pregnancy loss

[Laria19]

So I had two miscarriages last year, One was at 5 weeks and the other was a chemical. They hit me pretty hard because prior to these happening to me I had two healthy pregnancies. I brought up miscarriage in a session I had with my therapist and it made me realise that they affected me more than I taught. I want to try for another baby but can’t seem to process the losses properly. They don’t affect my daily life I just feel sad when I think of them and how I would feel if it happened to me again. Anyone else been though something similar ? Any words of encouragement 🙂thanks mamma’s 💜

Hello, I'm very sorry for your losses. I lost a baby at 12 weeks and it was pretty horrific is how I'd describe it personally. This was in 2020 and yes it still upsets me now when I talk about it. I think that's pretty normal for any loss, but I think that's just part of my life story now. I now have a happy, healthy, crazy wild 3 year old. I don't think ill ever get over the loss, it's still very upsetting when I speak about it, but it didn't stop me from trying for another.
Give yourself time to heal and try again if that's what you want. I had my loss in the December then conceived in March/April.
Hope this has helped you somewhat 💐

Thank you @Curlymam88 I definitely going to try this month again, it’s nice to know I am not in this alone 💜

No you're definitely not alone and it's more common than people think. I see posts on here often about losses. It's heartbreaking. But I wish you all the best to try again 🤞😊