Hi everyone
sadly I have had a confirmed miscarriage at 10 weeks after ivf.
it has been a long journey with Ivf starting 6 years ago
after the first round ended in miscarriage we were lucky enough to have a second round which has given us our beautiful nearly 4 year old
i had always been content with that we would be “one and done” and pictured a life as a family of 3.
last year we decided to do another round of ivf. Im not sure what shifted mentally to want to go again but I know I wanted to at least try to give her the chance of having a sibling and for me to experience it again
sadly it hasn’t worked and although I am sad for the baby we have lost - I feel mentally that I need to come to terms with that we won’t be trying again
im not sure what the point of my post is - just trying to get my head around how things have worked out ( I know hormones are still raging at the moment)
in a way I wish we didn’t try again so we wouldn’t have disappointment - but I am also trying to remind myself of how lucky I am and what a beautiful life I do and can continue to have
I feel for anyone who is struggling with infertility, loss and everything else that comes with it - it is so hard x