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MMC and now a blited ovum

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CJHR18 · 06/12/2024 08:34

Hello everyone. I'm not really asking a question, just looking to offload a bit.

We've been TTC for 3 year now and I'm a fertility patient at my local hospital due to not ovulating because of PCOS.

We found out we had concieved our 1st in May. This sadly ended in a MMC. It was quite a traumatic experience. We had seen the heart beat 5 days before being told there wasn't one. The medical management didn't work at all so I had to go through that twice which wasn't ideal. It took me a while to drag myself out of the hole I got myself into.

I found out I was pregnant again the end of October and was over the moon. Went for a scan on Thursday and there was only two empty sacs ☹️ I 100% know I'm not off with my dates and got my first positive the beginning of November, so it's impossible that it's an early pregnancy. I need to have my HCG monitored now just incase they're psuedo sacs and I'm having an ectopic.

Oh why is life so cruel?!

I'm at the point where I'm that desperate for a baby I don't know what scares me more: not trying, having the heartache of negative tests each month or actually being pregnant.

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CustardCream31 · 07/12/2024 20:18

CJHR18 · 06/12/2024 08:34

Hello everyone. I'm not really asking a question, just looking to offload a bit.

We've been TTC for 3 year now and I'm a fertility patient at my local hospital due to not ovulating because of PCOS.

We found out we had concieved our 1st in May. This sadly ended in a MMC. It was quite a traumatic experience. We had seen the heart beat 5 days before being told there wasn't one. The medical management didn't work at all so I had to go through that twice which wasn't ideal. It took me a while to drag myself out of the hole I got myself into.

I found out I was pregnant again the end of October and was over the moon. Went for a scan on Thursday and there was only two empty sacs ☹️ I 100% know I'm not off with my dates and got my first positive the beginning of November, so it's impossible that it's an early pregnancy. I need to have my HCG monitored now just incase they're psuedo sacs and I'm having an ectopic.

Oh why is life so cruel?!

I'm at the point where I'm that desperate for a baby I don't know what scares me more: not trying, having the heartache of negative tests each month or actually being pregnant.

Life certainly can be shit and cruel. So sorry you've gone through all this, and I truly hope you find the strength to carry on trying and the luck for it to be successful Flowers

Eirlys75 · 10/12/2024 12:31

Sorry you're going through this. I can relate! I've recently had a MMC. I'm scared of trying again, but scared of not trying. We're also signed up for IVF around Feb time, so I'm hoping to start trying again after this month (only miscarried last week), and see where it takes us. Just try and go at your own pace x

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