Daughter has miscarriage

[Odin1]

I’ve just found out by reading a Confidential drs letter to my daughter where they speak about her recent miscarriage. She doesn’t speak to me about her personal life and I’ve told her that as long as she’s not seriously ill then I’m ok with that. So now I’m devastated for her and I can’t say anything to her. Her bf lives with us. She’d be absolutely furious if she found out I was snooping. My own fault I know but seriously I don’t know what to do now. For her sake and my own. 🥲. Thanks x

The only thing you do is stay out of her personal affairs. If she wants your help and support, she’ll reach out to you.

Why are you snooping?

I can't imagine how you came across this confidential letter. I hope you know you shouldn't have read it because, you know, boundaries.
You're now in the situation where you know something she didn't want you to know. How do I know that? Because she would have told you otherwise.
If you ask about it, she'll know you snooped and she'll think she can't trust you. Is that the kind of support you wanted to give her? I don't think so.
So I think you're going to have to pretend you don't know and bury your feelings about it.

You'll just have to pretend you don't know.

She will bring it up with you if she wants to x

Why on earth did you read this letter? that's shocking behaviour.