3 early MC in a year.41 years old.

[Bananarama37]

I'm sad, devastated and so anxious. I am not sure I can go through this again. In total, I suffered 8 miscarriages, including ectopic. I am lucky to have a wonderful healthy daughter with my husband but we have never managed to have another baby, and it's been 6 years of constant heartbreak. I feel like we have come to the end of the road and have to accept that at our age (we are the same age) MC is almost a normal and expected . I know there are many many positive stories out there, but I feel like ever since we started our journey we have always been on the wrong side of statistics. To be part of that 1% of women who go on to have more than 3 MC is something I struggle with mentally. We have done IVF, I miscarried a healthy baby at 11 weeks due to an insufficient cervix issue. we have done all infertility tests and nothing has ever shown any problems, or issues- nothing! I am just really sad going through my latest MC right now and wanted to share my story. I feel for everyone dealing with infertility and loss suffering in silence. 💔

I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm the same age as you and have one DS of 2. We're one child by choice because of our ages but also because I feel so grateful to have had DS without any health issues and wouldn't have wanted to chance having another for the reasons you describe. It must be heartbreaking to go through these things especially several times over. It seems so unfair when some can have multiple children with relative ease.