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Test results back - scared and weary again

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Habbibu · 23/04/2008 19:26

Just had a phone call from hosp, 3 weeks after ERPC. They have test results back, and consultant has asked us to go in tomorrow. Was very spooked for a while, but think maybe it's ok - consultant is going on holiday on Friday, which explains the urgency. He's given us PM results before, for dd1, and spent about 10 mins explaining that nothing else was wrong apart from anencephaly, and then over an hour chatting to us about how we were feeling, so I'm hoping against hope that he just wants to see how we're doing. Trying not to feel nervous - this whole thing is making me so weary, though. It just shouldn't be this hard. And I'm lucky. I have a beautiful healthy 18 month old girl. But I so want a sibling for her, and it just seems so hard right now.

Has anyone else been for test results after first trimester m/c?

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lackaDAISYcal · 23/04/2008 20:26

no advice habbibu, but bumping for you. I'll post a link on knicker checkers as well, some of the girls might have some experience.

I hope you're doing OK

cmotdibbler · 23/04/2008 20:30

I had tests after my third mc (nothing was apparent), but I'd guess that your consultant would call you in to tell you that there was nothing untoward, given your circumstances.

I'll be thinking of you.

Habbibu · 23/04/2008 21:05

Many thanks, both of you. Was doing ok, Daisy, but this and seeing pregnant people at work has thrown me a little bit, so I'm allowing myself a wobble...

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lackaDAISYcal · 23/04/2008 22:19

wobble away habbibu, it is allowed every now and again as you have been through the mill.......but have a {{{{{{{hug}}}}}}} from me. xx

Habbibu · 24/04/2008 15:33

Well, it's not great news - partial molar pregnancy - have started new thread here. Consultant was lovely - remembered my family details from 3 years ago! Our hospital is the Scottish National Centre for the molar register, which is good. Just fed up at yet another bloody complication.

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