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How long does it take to recover physically?

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Fmay · 10/07/2024 11:18

Hi, I have been going through a lot of health issues since the miscarriage, not all related but just so run down. Was wondering if anyone else has been through similar and come out the other side? How long did it take to feel better?

I miscarried at 11 weeks in March. It was a horrible time but we are lucky to already have a healthy little girl and all the medical advice suggests I should be able to have a successful pregancy again. Obviously I was very upset and still sad but what is making it hard to move on is the long term physical effects. I have been bleeding almost constantly, with maybe a week off here and there, since the MC. It was a 'wait and see' approach and took a long time to get a negative pregnancy test afterwards (5 weeks), but the midwives said this was normal. Last month I went to my gp about the bleeding and was proscribed 3 weeks of progesterone pills (norethisterone). The bleeding stopped but the side effects have been unexpectedly awful. Uncontrollable mood swings, anxiety, insomnia. I'm halfway through the treatment and I've had to call in sick and explain the situation to my work. Luckily they are very kind but I feel so useless. Every time I try to move on it feels like something drags me back down. I have also been so run down due to usual nursery colds etc from my daughter. In the 4 months since the MC I have had tonsilitus, thrush and hand, foot and mouth disease. I would love to be pregnant again but I'm also scared of it happening again and even just getting pregnant while feeling so run down already. All my close friends are currently pregnant with their first babies and while I'm so happy for them it has made it difficult to talk about what I'm going through.

Sorry for the rant but just needed to hear a friendly voice.

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Fmay · 25/08/2024 12:19

Just an update incase anyone in a similar situation ever reads this...
Tldr - the pills worked really well although hard at the time. Felt much better as soon as I finished, and I got pregnant again very soon afterwards.

I really, really struggled on the hormone pills, but felt better very quickly once I came off them. My mood was completely different, I wasn't anxious or depressed anymore. And without the constant bleeding I could get on with life and wasn't being reminded of the miscarriage all the time. I also talked to some of my friends and even though they were pregnant it made me feel much better. It was still a bit sad being around them but they were so kind and supportive it really helped.

The pills, though difficult, definetly worked. I got my period as soon as i finished, then no more bleeding. I tried using ovulation sticks just to confirm everything was working again and got a positive result. We tried the SMEP (sperm meets egg plan) which basically means trying every day after the positive ovulation test. And now I am 5 weeks pregnant! Wasn't expecting it so soon but so happy. Feel surprisingly good about this pregnancy as well (I had a weird vibe about the last one, I just felt the whole time something wasn't quite right) so just trying to stay positive and take things one step at a time.

Even without the pregnancy, I was so much happier and healthier within a month of writing that post. So if you're in a similar situation... hang in there! There is light at the end of the tunnel xxx

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CxCxTtc2024 · 26/08/2024 20:38

Didn't want to read and run, my first time back on MN after my second MC this year in July (well the last one doesn't really count as a mc as it was molar, no baby ever there to begin with). I'm sorry to hear about your previous mc, and I am really pleased to hear you are pregnant again, I hope everything goes smoothly for you 💐

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