Limited growth at scan

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Hi everyone, just looking for anyone with similar experience in this.

I’ve had a scan this morning where there has been limited growth since my previous scan two weeks ago. I should be about 8weeks but no heartbeat etc. It’s not confirmed I’ve miscarried yet (as there has been some growth) but I have a follow up next week where it should be confirmed.

I just wondered if anyone else had been through this? I’m not expecting any miracles at the next scan but I’m worried it carries on for a while. If there is more growth at the next scan do I keep going? Should have asked today but didn’t think to.

Thanks xx

I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

I haven’t been in exactly the same position, but I’ve had a bumpy fertility journey including loss, and have been in a similarly uncertain position.

The not-knowing is so difficult, but all you can do is just hold on for the next scan. It can be quite overwhelming in the moment — and it’s so easy not to ask questions, because it’s a lot to process then and there.

Maybe try the Tommys helpline? It’s staffed by midwives and I’m sure they’ll be used to talking to women in similar situations. They might be able to help answer some of your questions.

Wishing you all the best

Thanks for you reply @SagittariusUprising
The sonographer and midwives were pretty clear it was going to end in mc, it’s just the waiting for that to be confirmed feels a
bit of a cruel process. Sorry you’ve experienced loss too, it’s a heartbreaking journey.

Hello and so very sorry you are going through this. I had a missed miscarriage found ar a first 12 week scan in the Autumn so I know your pain.
I am going to be honest with you and say that if there is no heartbeat and you are as certain as you can be on dates then there is really no chance that there will be growth and heartbeat when you have your next scan. It is protocol to have a confirmation scan in these scenarios in case but like you say it is a cruel process.
In the sad but likely event that you get a confirmation of loss then the midwife or doctor will discuss next steps with you if you have not started the process of miscarriage itself in the meantime.
I hope for a miracle for you but I am also sending a virtual hug. This is such a difficult thing to go through and there are lots of us in these forums who have suffered the same. X