So sad this evening

[ludocris]

I just can't bear it. Monday should have been my 12 week scan. A few days later is my DS' birthday. I was so very excited to tell him he was at long last going to be a big brother. He would have been overjoyed.

I'm 43 and I don't know if it will happen for us now.

That's all.

I'm so sorry, it really is so sad. I had a MC a month ago and all the milestones you would have gone through and excitedly looked forward to are so difficult now. Please be kind to yourself, sending much love.

I’m very sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry to hear this. 💐

Sorry to hear this. I'm your age and the same happened to me at the end of last year. I understand how you feel almost exactly I think.
I still feel a wound in my heart.
Sending thoughts and well wishes your way.

It's the absolute worst. I'm so sorry this has happened OP. 🌷

I totally understand how you're feeling. My 12 week scan would have been om Friday. I had a missed miscarriage 2 weeks ago. It was my second miscarriage. I have no living children.
I know 4 people who are currently pregnant. One is due 1 week before I would have. It's hard seeing them but my time will come.

I am so sorry for your loss. I understand the heartbreak.

I pray we get our rainbow babies 🙏

I’m so sorry for your loss. The should-have-been milestones are so hard afterwards. Be gentle with yourself, hug your son, and hopefully there’s a rainbow around the corner for you

I'm so sorry for your loss and the pain you are feeling. My 12 week scan would have been yesterday and I felt like the floor had been wiped from below my feet with my sister in law also announcing her pregnancy at 12 weeks on the same day. It's very tricky to navigate - life can feel so cruel. I hope you have been able to comfort yourself with some choccy and escapism. Xxx

@ludocris I'm so sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you feel. It's so hard to navigate your feelings. My sister in law gave birth last Tuesday on what would've been the due date if I hadn't had my second MC last year. The baby was 4 weeks early. I don't feel any bitterness or jealousy towards my brother or SIL and am genuinely happy for them but when he called me to say the baby had come it felt like someone had kicked me in my stomach. With the milestones it's just one of those things we have to muddle our way through but just know there's loads of us on here unfortunately going through the same so we can all help each other. Giving you a huge hug and a hand hold. Take time to care for yourself OP 💐💐

Thank you all for your compassion. And I'm sorry for what you're all going through or have been through too. It's just shit.