11 weeks

[Harveybelle]

Hey all,

Yesterday I miscarried. It wss my second pregnancy.. my son is 6. This was going to be my partners 1st.
Everything seemed okay until I started pink spotting about a week ago which on Sunday turned into proper bleeding and clotting early hours yesterday morning. A&E said to wait and I had an emergency scan today. I knew last night I had passed the little fetus. Scan today showed a little bit of tissue left which she expects to pass. I have another scan to confirm next week.
I just feel so up and down. But it's put into perspective how much we want a baby of our own.
Having had one almost perfect pregnancy this was a massive shock.
I guess I'm just posting for support and to reach out to others in a similar situation.

So sorry for your loss. Here to talk if you need. I sadly miscarried yesterday, my first pregnancy at around 7 weeks. Nothing can prepare you for the pain. Sending you so much love and hugs. We all heal in different ways, keep close to eachother and look after yourself. X

I had a miscarriage in February last year OP and I don't think I'll ever forget how I felt at the scan when we saw the heart wasn't beating.

It still hurts nearly a year on. I'm 22 weeks pregnant now and the fear is still there too.

Big big hugs. I found online forums and speaking to other women in real life really helpful.

You were all that baby knew and you loved them very much. What a lovely way to live, even if just for a short time x

I’m so sorry for your loss 💐

I’m miscarrying now at 8/9 weeks after one healthy pregnancy. Like you, it has really highlighted how much we wanted another baby. I now know that this is a journey ❤️ This forum has really helped me, there are so many other women in our position which I have found comforting (although very sad).

I miscarried at 11 weeks last year, similar experience as you but first pregnancy. Same that it made us realised how much we wanted it. It's brought us closer as a couple as well. It's still utterly awful. I had some counselling which really helped.

Hi all,

Just a bit of a let out and maybe advice. It's been a week now and I feel like the emotional side is only really coming out. I'm struggling this week, especially as it should have been our 12 week scan and instead I'm going for a follow up to check all is empty in there.
We're heartbroken but want to focus on trying for our rainbow.
Did anyone else have a delayed emotional response. This week is all 'why' 'what could have been'. I'm trying to lift my spirits but finding it harder than I thought.