Sorry to hear about your miscarriage.
I had the ERPC on the NHS in London on Monday. I went in at 11, into theatre by 4.30 and left at 8.30. There was a fair bit of waiting around, but mostly all the staff were lovely and very kind which helped. (Except for the Sister who kicked my husband out of the ward for 2 hours for the so-called 'rest time' - where no-one rested.)
The pessary they gave me to open the cervix and switch off ppregnancy hormones (I think) caused a lot of abdo pain and nausea and for that they gave me tramadol which didn't help but I went into theatre a while after so I was well drugged up by then.
I was in a room of 4 women including myself, no-one was pregnant. They were having hysterectomies, cyst removals etc..
After I'd eaten and peed, I was allowed hone after seeing the doctor, very briefly. They gave me paracetamol and ibuprofen for pain.
I have taken 2 days off work, physically, I feel mostly ok except for some sharp shooting pains, and I'm cream crackered from the general anaesthetic. Emotionally I'm a bit wobbly at times, but I'm finding that just watching dvds is taking my mind off things.
The doctor said no sex for a week, fine by me, to use contraception until the next period, (for dating purposes), after which it was fine to start trying again, if that is what we wanted. Not sure what I want yet but good to get the info.
Good luck with everything.